Fans of 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days can’t help but notice the similarities between Darcey Silva’s relationships with Tom Brooks and Jesse Meester. The two men are showing eerie shared personality traits with their obsession with their looks., and the way they seem to enjoy stringing-along Darcey. Now fans will have to see if Darcey will end with Tom the same way she ended with Jesse - an unexpected break-up in New York City.

TLC originally followed this mother of two who left everything behind in America to go to Amsterdam to meet her long-distance boyfriend, Jesse. Once there, the obvious differences between Jesse and Darcey became all too apparent to viewers. Darcey simply longed for affection and attention, while it seemed the more stoic (and oftentimes overbearing) Jesse wished for a more independent woman. As Darcey eagerly awaited Jesse’s marriage proposal, viewers watched as their relationship imploded before she ever received an engagement ring. The two ended in a dramatic fight in New York City after Jesse brought Darcey to New York City with the sole purpose of breaking up with her. Darcey’s resilient heart kept her going and she soon found love again with another foreign beau, Tom. However, it looks like this foreign man might end the same way as her last.

Die-hard fans of the hit show, 90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days had started to notice that Darcey’s two foreign men have begun to act in a similar pattern of one another. Fans will recall that Jesse at first seemed to be enjoying the rollercoaster that was his American girlfriend, but his feelings started to waver after she visited him in Amsterdam. While Tom had known Darcey for several years before taking the plunge into commitment. Darcey, once again flew out to London to meet her new knight in shining armor only to be let down.

Much like Darcey, both men are highly driven and successful and thrive professionally. Jesse worked as a personal trainer while Tom is the director of a women’s fitness brand called, LaBelle Mafia while also owning the London gym brand, Fit Nation. Viewers would have thought that each couple could have bonded over the fact that they all were in charge of their own business and were looking to become successful entrepreneurs. Unfortunately, Darcey could not hide her neediness which happened to be a turn off to both men. While Jesse was far more harsh in his judgments of Darcey, neither man enjoyed her jealous tendencies.

Jesse would often start arguing over her use of alcohol, calling her an alcoholic and demanded that she stop drinking or he would leave her. While Tom stayed cool under pressure and would try to speak with Darcey with face-to-face conversations. What has surprised fans the most is the fact that in the upcoming episode of the show it looked as if Tom would be breaking up with Darcey in the exact same manner that Jesse had broken up with her. The altercation went down on Jesse’s last trip to New York City with Tom calling on Sunday’s episode to set up the same exact meeting. Darcey is worried that just as Jesse had done, Tom is asking her to meet him in New York City with the sole purpose of breaking up with her.

The two men do have a lot in common when it comes to dealing with Darcey and viewers are wondering if it’s the type of men Darcey chooses or if she simply brings out the worst in the men she dates. It is obvious that both fellows are not interested in accepting Darcey for who she is, as the pair both try to change her into a version of a woman they can stand. Either way, 90 Day Fiancé viewers will have to tune in to next week’s episode to see how the breakup goes down and confirm that Tom is just another Jesse.

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90 Day Fiancé: Before the 90 Days airs Sundays at 8pm EST on TLC.